At the end of the second stage of Pip's expectations, both Pip and Estella come to realize something of great importance to them. When the convict comes back into pip's life and tells pip that he is his secret benefactor, pip comes to realize that he is not destined to marry Estella after all.
"Miss Havisham's intentions towards me, all a mere dream; Estella not designed for me; I only suffered in Satis House as a convenience, a sting for the greedy relations, a model with a mechanical heart to practise on what no other practice was at hand; those were the first smarts I had. But, sharpest and deepest pain of all - it was for the convict, guilty of i knew not what crimes, and liable to be taken out of those rooms where I sat thinking, and hanged at the Old Bailey door, that I had deserted Joe."
Now with the knowledge as the convict as his benefactor Pip becomes heartbroken and realizes that his love Estella is not meant for him. This is a tough relevation for Pip for since he met Estella he has always thought Miss Havisham was intending for him to marry her. Not only is he not meant to marry her, but he realizes he is expected to be her companion while she goes and meets suitors. But not only does he realize he is not meant for Estella anymore, he comes to realize that he had abandoned Joe. He now knows that he had just wasted his time chasing a dream that he thought he was destined for and abandoned his best friend along the way for nothing. This comes as the sharpest, most painful realization for him. Now that Pip knows this, I think Pip will try and re-connect with Joe, but i dont think he will give up on his love with Estella. Pip will go on to build a strong relationship with the convict Magwitch also.
At the end of the second stage of Pip's expectations Estella also comes to realize something of great importance. When she is at the Satis House with Miss Havisham she realizes that she will never be able to truly love someone.
"if you had taught her, from the dawn of her intelligence, with your utmost energy and might, that there was such a thing as daylight, but that it was made to be her enemy and destroyer, and she must always turn against it, for it had blighted you and would else blight her—if you had done this, and then, for a purpose, had wanted her to take naturally to the daylight and she could not do it, you would have been disappointed and angry? . . .”
“So,” said Estella, “I must be taken as I have been made. The success is not mine, the failure is not mine, but the two together make me.”
While talking to Miss Havisham, Estella comes to realize she can not love anyone. She tells Miss Havisham that this is the way she had raised her. She comes to the conclusion that Miss Havisham had brought her up to be cold and cruel to men since men had been cold and cruel to her. Because Estella had been brought up this way, She realizes that this has made it impossible for her to express her emotions and love someone. Now that Estella realizes she can not love anyone I think she will go and marry Drummle for the hell of it. I dont think she will get involved with Pip because she knows she will never be able to love him.